Make DSH agents-as-a-service browser-usable; fix probe crash-loop (#3)

* Rewrite DSH gateway for browser sessions, HTTP and WebSocket

- Replace the Flask proxy with a Starlette ASGI app (uvicorn factory),
  keeping the control plane (claims, wake/suspend, idle sweeper).
- Add HttpOnly gateway sessions and a server-side DSH launch-token
  handshake: read the token from pod logs, exchange it for a dsh-auth
  cookie, cache per (user, pod UID, Host), refresh once on 401.
- Proxy HTTP/SSE and WebSocket (/api/remote.mux) under /u/<user>/, with
  header stripping/injection, Location rewriting and wake-on-connect.
- Add a landing/signup/login page, health endpoint, pinned dependencies,
  a read-only-rootfs gateway image, 87 cluster-free tests and docs.

* Fix DSH probe crash-loop and harden gateway manifests

- Probe /favicon.svg instead of /: DSH gates / behind its launch-token
  cookie and returns 401, which made warm-pool pods crash-loop.
- Pass DSH_TRUSTED_HOSTS through the entrypoint as --trusted-host args
  for public/ingress hosts; keep localhost trusted.
- Deploy the published :gateway image, add pods/pods-log RBAC, /healthz
  probes, read-only rootfs with a /tmp emptyDir and non-root security.
- Add optional Traefik Ingress and document the prerequisites.

* Update CI, smoke tests, build tooling and docs

- Run gateway pytest/ruff and build/smoke-test the image in CI.
- Parameterize the DSH build version and pnpm version inputs.
- Exercise cookie signup, HTML proxy, WebSocket auth, suspend/wake and
  delete in run-test-kind.sh.
- Add Makefile/build.sh targets and document the architecture, handshake,
  probes, trusted hosts, troubleshooting and limitations.

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Co-authored-by: SREDevOpsAgents <agents@sredevops.org>

examples/dsh-agents-as-a-service/gateway/requirements.txt

@@ -1,3 +1,6 @@
-flask==3.1.*
-requests==2.32.*
-kubernetes==31.0.*
+starlette==1.9.0
+uvicorn[standard]==0.54.0
+httpx==0.28.1
+websockets==17.3
+kubernetes==37.0.1
+python-multipart==0.0.32